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That’s what goes through my mind when I travel, regardless of how luxurious or scenic the place is. There’s no place like home (at least for me).

Sure, I go back and visit certain vacation spots that I really like, but I always return back home again.

The same goes for Social Media (and this is just my own personal opinion); it’s a nice place to visit, but I wouldn’t want to live there (all the time).

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I know I’ll probably upset some folks who do spend their time online, all the time; and by no means do I intend any disrespect at all.

It’s just for me, I like to have a balance between my online social networking time and my offline, F2F time (face-to-face or phone-to-phone time).

For those just starting out in learning about social media and feel like they are missing out because they don’t have a lot of time to spend, I say: relax, take it one step at a time, one site at a time, and try it out, even if it’s just a few minutes at a time.

I recommend approaching social media as if it were a vacation:

• Take some time to plan and do a little research
• Ask around for some advice on where to go and what to do
• Keep your personal belongings safely stowed
• Realize that your suitcase might get opened and your dirty laundry exposed when you least expect it
• Upon arrival, look around, spend some time and learn the culture and language
• Engage in conversation with the locals
• Most important: Food. What did you have for lunch? We’d all like to know ; )

What are your thoughts about spending time on Social Media?

Leave a comment below or send me a tweet on Twitter

Happy travels!

Regards,
Eva Abreu

Three Things to Live By:

• Stay Healthy
• Stay Focused
• Stay Connected with Younger and Older Generations

…more to come.

What are your 3 Things to live by?

~Eva Abreu

Fox News: President proposed budget ends the possibility of astronauts returning to the moon

Please leave your comments below.

Time and space permitting, I’ll include selected comments in my forthcoming book, Reaching for the Moon and the Stars, The Legacy and Influence of the Apollo Generation.

Thanks and regards,

Eva Abreu, Author
Reaching For The Moon and the Stars
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Eva Abreu, follow me on Twitter
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Q1: Tell us about your Twitter business success story.

Q2: How long did it take from initial contact with the other Twitter user, up to this point? (i.e. How many days/months did it take from the first time you connected with this Twitter user, until you reach a milestone in your success story)

Q3: How long have you been on Twitter?

Q4: How much time per day do you spend on Twitter?

Q5: Your contact info: Email, Telephone number, your website

Q6: For verification: Please provide the contact info for any person, business or organization that is mentioned in your story.

Please email your responses to eva at evaabreu dot com

Connecting with Social Media: Emerging from the dinosaur’s “tar pit”

Here’s the episode from Desperate Housewives on ABC mentioning Twitter.

For experienced users of Social Media:
Q: Do you “get” Twitter? What advice would you give to a new user of Twitter?

For the rest of us “dinosaurs”:
Q: Are you still trying to figure out what Twitter is all about? What questions do you have about Twitter?

Please post your responses, questions and replies in Comments.

Thanks for your feedback!

Eva Abreu, NJ Social Media.com
Email: eva at evaabreu dot com

The first topic is: Social Media Networking Events (tweetups, face-to-face networking, etc).

• What questions do you have about Social Media Networking Events?
• Do you have advice for first-time attendees or coordinators?

Please leave a comment below with your questions or tips and advice.

Looking forward to hearing your comments!

Thanks,
Eva Abreu
NJ Social Media

Photo credit: Intersection Consulting

I really enjoy organizing Tweetups. For those of you who don’t know what a Tweetup is, it’s a live, in-person networking meeting of folks who know each other online from Twitter (or Facebook or other Social Networking site).  Twitter + meetup= Tweetup. Some amazing things take place when you have the chance to meet people face-to-face.

I had the opportunity to coordinate a second Tweetup with David Mathison, Author of Be The Media, this past Saturday, Sept. 19, right after the Writer’s Digest Conference in Manhattan (the first Tweetup we coordinated together was the NYC Social Media Cruise on August 27th). It’s been a real privilege to work together with David to put together these events and to be able to meet people that I never would have had the chance to otherwise.

Below is a quick slideshow that I put together of some photos from the 9/19 Tweetup. Special thanks to Sandra Lee Schubert for her photos.

I’ll be writing more in a future post about the people that I met and connections made.

In the meantime, I would recommend finding some time on a regular basis to connect and collaborate offline, whether by phone, email, IM, Skype, or in-person with some new online contacts. You’ll never know what opportunities may come of it!

Contact me online or offline to talk more about this topic; I’d love to hear from you!

Regards,
Eva

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I’ve had to revise the release date yet again, to mid-September 2009 early 2010.

In the meantime though, I’d like to give you a preview of the book cover (created by Rick Wolff) and also Chapter 1 which discusses the legacy and influence of John F. Kennedy and his vision to reach the moon.

View Chapter 1 PDF here

Let me know what you think of Chapter 1 by leaving a comment below or via the Contact Form.

For my first attempt at self-publishing a book, I’m learning the hard way what it takes to get it to print. I tend to learn best this way, though, by doing it all myself the first time, then deciding what parts to delegate for the next time around.

The research part came relatively easily and I thank all the folks who I interviewed, who were willing to freely share their stories. They were truly inspirational and touching. Also a big thank you for those who helped with the behind-the-scenes research and compiling sources. I now have so much information that the hard part is deciding what to keep and what to leave out for inclusion in future volumes. Plus, I’m continuing to uncover brand new information every day as I complete the process of cross-checking sources for attribution, rights and clearances.

The writing and editing part is what’s been really getting me bogged down. I thought the writing would come much more easily and faster than it actually has, but I find myself writing, then re-writing, then revising yet again, trying to get it perfect. Also, I get burned out after a certain amount of time of working on it, and need to completely disengage myself from the project for a while, in order to come back again with a clear head and renewed attitude. That’s why you’ll see me pop up on Twitter or Facebook every once in a while, chatting about something completely off-topic from the book.

Finding blocks of time has been difficult as I’m home with the kids for the summer, trying to keep them occupied and prevent arguments from bubbling up. And also sitting for hours on end has been a challenge for me because I’m more used to being up and about and active. I hope this doesn’t come across as complaining or whining because that’s the last thing that I want to come across as, a complainer. I just wanted to give you a little glimpse of what’s happening behind the scenes. Any suggestions or advice on how this process could be made easier would be most welcome!

What keeps me going though, is knowing that you, who are reading this and who have been so supportive through the last several weeks, have told me that you are looking forward to the book coming out. I am truly grateful for your kind words, your tremendous encouragement and generous offers to help. I can’t let you down, so I’m pushing forward to complete this.

Thank you again for sticking with me through it all as I continue to get this baby out into the world.  I am grateful for you being there.   Best regards, Eva

In the words of Walter Cronkite, “Go Baby, Go!”

F-1 Engine of Saturn V rocket, Apollo 11
Photo by Eva Abreu, taken at Smithsonian Air & Space Museum, Washington, D.C., Aug. 2009

My original intention was to have my book finished by July 20th, on the same day that man landed on the moon, 40 years ago.

I ended up finding so many great sources of information that I decided to postpone, then postpone, and then postpone again, several times, my release date, so that I could make sure to rewrite and include the new information, as well as do the proper research for copyright information, submit requests for permission to use certain articles and then re-edit my bibliography to give proper attribution to the new sources added. Whew.

Well, I’ve decided to delay the release one final time. The new release date will be August 21st, early 2010.

I’m still sorting through and collating all the great stories, interviews and archived reports that I’ve collected over the past few weeks, but I’ve had this persistent, nudging feeling that just kept bugging me and bugging me that something was still missing. (No, it wasn’t indigestion, though I thought it could be at one point).

The book started off as a way for me to record my dad’s story of his involvement with the Apollo 11 mission. In my discussions with him, he clearly remembers a lot of things, but there are some things that he can’t recall, especially after 40 years. The one thing that he can’t seem to remember was the name of the exact part that he worked on, and where it was used on the space mission. He knows that it was a remote sensor (telemetry) part, but that’s about it.

I’ve done numerous searches on the Internet, over the past several weeks, but have been coming up with a blank. Along the way, I’ve stumbled across some other related information which has been somewhat helpful, but not quite the answer that I’m looking for. I feel like the information is out there somewhere, but not exactly clear just yet where to find it…

I guess I’m looking for closure on identifying what exactly the part was and where it was used.

So, I’ve decided to make the trip to Washington D.C. this month to visit the NASA Headquarters Library and the Smithsonian National Air and Space Museum to see if I can track down the information that I’m looking for, and to also see first-hand some of the exhibits and artifacts from the Apollo 11 mission, and show my kids too, so that I can bring it full circle.

It’s one thing to read about it, it’s another to write about it.

I’d like to take it one step further and see the items from Apollo 11 up close, live and in-person. And, hopefully, find that one missing piece that my dad worked on. Then, I think I’ll be ready for closure, to circle around again one more time, and finally complete my mission (i.e. writing).

Then it will be time. The book will take flight.

Have you ever felt the same way? The need to search for that one missing piece? The nudging? The need to bring closure to a situation?

Sometimes, some things run parallel in our lives for a reason…

Let me know your thoughts on this.

As always, thanks.

~Eva
(hat tip to @7thscreen who is looking for closure and help in finding his missing Beatles car)

NJ Social Media Tour Schedule coming soon…